Did you have a theme for the wedding? And was it a late night Pinterest obsession?!
I’ve got an
overwhelming number of Pinterest boards related to weddings. I’ve always wanted to work in a creative field like
wedding planning / design or interior design or event planning. I’ve done a bit of it as a part of my work and had
the opportunity to execute tons of trade shows, but by the time Sean and I finally got engaged, I knew precisely
what I wanted.
Our lives are very colorful, and we have been blessed with some of the craziest opportunities. We’ve been together quite a long time, as well, and know each other in a way that most people only learn after they get married. That meant I wanted something like us: colorful, joyful, full of laughter and inclusive of the different traditions and characters that have made up our multi-faceted lives. With some extra touches that serve as shout outs to our own families’ histories.
Did you sit down for a formal dinner or party the night away with canapés and cocktails?
We had
a dinner, but it was served from a taco cart – again, just our style. We sat down and listened to incredibly
personalized (and sometimes embarrassing!) speeches from some of the people that have known us the longest, but
there was a costume change to less formal outfits. We don’t like to take life too seriously, but we believe in
giving room to tradition with a twist.
Did you have a special song to walk down the aisle to?
We did – Sean-Paul and I share a love
for drum n bass, and it was one of the ways we originally recognized the other’s uniqueness and willingness to march
to their own drum. I chose (in secret!) the song that I came down the aisle to. He chose the song that we walked out
to. And I chose the song that we danced to. They were all a secret and, fittingly, we chose specific drum n bass
songs that we’ve sung to each other a million times and danced to in the car and on dance floors across the world.
What was the most challenging aspect about planning a destination wedding?
I am ridiculously
organized. I have been made fun of for my spreadsheets by colleagues, friends, and family. But I am a planner
through and through – and it meant that I didn’t find planning much of a challenge at all. It was, hands down, one
of the most fulfilling experiences of my life! I only wish we could’ve had a teleportation machine to get more of
the people that we love there. It was heartbreaking to not have everyone with us on that day, but we were blessed to
have my incredible friend Amber Marlow to do our photography and the amazing, talented people from Leura Film who
captured the memories beautifully.